Happy Relationship Stories

Post by **Cowtown Comedy** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:04 pm

Can someone please send some positive relationship stories?? Seems all we hear about is the psycho bar girl wife, that loves knives and buring down houses. Please send some happy stories..After reading so many depressing stories I'm scared to even talk to a thai lady....

Post by **Sabai Jai** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:33 pm

There was a recent positive thread on relationships, probably best to use 'search' to pick up on that one.

I think there at least as many good as bad news stories about relationships and the 'good & bad' aspects can be attributed to both Thai and European partners in similar proportions.

I think alot of it depends on knowing what you intentions and expectations are, keeping a cool and relatively sober head.

Looking for a potentialy faithful partner in a 'Bar Beer' also not strongly recommended. Join some sort of club or society that represents one of you interests and meet people that way, by participating and contributing in activities...

I've been in a steady and happy relationship for years, i was and am lucky. i think it probably is harder than it used to be...

SJ

Post by **richard** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:31 pm

SJ

I think a lot of it depends on knowing what you intentions and expectations are, keeping a cool and relatively sober head.

I think it also important to know where your G/F is coming from too

Takes 2 to tango, in any part of the world

Post by **Jockey** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:38 pm

Who wants to know about happy relationships? Thats boring. Knifes, extortion, cheating and arson are much more interesting!

Post by **Sabai Jai** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:42 pm

Richard

That is often the most difficult part, giving trust if you have already had you fingers burnt even harder!

But you have to try and find some framework and a bit of common sense to narrow the odds

SJ

Post by **Big Boy** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:34 pm

Cowtown Comedy wrote:Can someone please send some positive relationship stories?? Seems all we hear about is the psycho bar girl wife, that loves knives and buring down houses. Please send some happy stories..After reading so many depressing stories I'm scared to even talk to a thai lady....

Very strange

I wonder why you moved to Hua Hin if you are so scared. Obviously not to start a relationship.

From what I see, most Farang/Thai relationships are good, but as Jockey said, married bliss is boring, and nobody (except you) wants to hear the good news stories. Life goes on, and the majority of us are not getting stabbed, or having our houses burnt down around us.

Bad news is what sells newspapers, and it works on a forum like this as well

If I said I'd just bought my wife a gift, and she had responded by cooking me a wonderful dinner, I'm sure that would achieve 0 Replies

Post by **johnnyk** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:43 pm

Cowtown Comedy wrote:Can someone please send some positive relationship stories?? Seems all we hear about is the psycho bar girl wife, that loves knives and buring down houses. Please send some happy stories..After reading so many depressing stories I'm scared to even talk to a thai lady....

Stop living vicariously.

Go out and get your own positive relationship. Many have.

Post by **Brit Jim** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 1:41 am

As you know I ve had my troubles here but it would nt deter me from another relationship with a Thai girl. Sure I will be CAREFULL next time but you cant label them all with the same brush.

You have to decide what your looking for and what your intentions are?
What are your expectations? Too many variables really!

1. Do You want a serious relationship?

2. Do you want something casual?

3. Do you want to go down the Bar Girl scene?

All three have plus and minus points and nothing is guaranteed.

The only thing I can say is that the more time you spend in this country hopefully the more you can learn about the culture and the way of life.
Maybe OUR biggest problem is that we use our western values and expectations in LOS and obviously this doesnt always work. The Thais may have diffrent expectations from farang.

Yep I agree that we do hear some bad stories but then again some do work out. Do we ever hear about the farangs who rip off and abuse the thai girls? No it always seems to be about the poor farang getting ripped off! Maybe its just one big game and you have to decide what your looking for and learn to play the game well!

Post by **bj.blackowitz** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 1:59 am

my story: ( my GF is from the Phi, lives in Los for 6 years now)

Met a Girl Online on Thailandfriends.com
works as teacher got an even better job now thanx to my friends 1st time we met just had luch
stayed in contact further, phone, skype etc,
met again 2 months later and did the deed, she was still virgin
Met again in January while I was on pass thru .
stayed with me for 3 weeks in march
smart girl, fun, enjoyes being with me 24/7 and can deal with my moodswings as well.
will meet again in June ( will be staying in her new appt), will join me again in HH in august .

i'm 40, she is 28

happy ?
yes I am
so is she

Post by **dtaai-maai** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:19 am

bj.blackowitz wrote:my story: ( my GF is from the Phi, lives in Los for 6 years now)

Met a Girl Online on Thailandfriends.com
works as teacher got an even better job now thanx to my friends 1st time we met just had luch
stayed in contact further, phone, skype etc,
met again 2 months later and did the deed, she was still virgin
Met again in January while I was on pass thru .
stayed with me for 3 weeks in march
smart girl, fun, enjoyes being with me 24/7 and can deal with my moodswings as well.
will meet again in June ( will be staying in her new appt), will join me again in HH in august .

i'm 40, she is 28

happy ?
yes I am
so is she

And I thought romance was dead.

Post by **DawnHRD** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:00 am

bj.blackowitz wrote:my story: ( my GF is from the Phi, lives in Los for 6 years now)

Met a Girl Online on Thailandfriends.com
works as teacher got an even better job now thanx to my friends 1st time we met just had luch
stayed in contact further, phone, skype etc,
met again 2 months later and did the deed, she was still virgin <snip>
she is 28

You met on Thailandfriends.com. She's 28 & living over here for 6 years. And she was a virgin until you & she 'did the deed'.

Of course she was.

Post by **bj.blackowitz** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:34 pm

well you better knower, off course I knew, I guess you never seen a virgin from clse up, I can tell you she was never penetrated before, and the blood that flew was not from me, nor did she have "mens". She told me before she was a virgin and would love to lose it to me, some girls still save it for their "night in white armor"

but I gues you can better go to the bars and fall in love for 1 week, maybee suites you better.

fyi : she is born again christian and has other values and normes.

Super Joe · Post by **Super Joe** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 2:56 pm

no i cant

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ozuncle · Post by **ozuncle** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:09 pm

Jockey wrote:Who wants to know about happy relationships? Thats boring. Knifes, extortion, cheating and arson are much more interesting!

You forgot to add real estate agents to that list.

ozuncle · Post by **ozuncle** » Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:11 pm

bj.b
I think just the basic info would have been enough. We realy dont need the blood and guts thanks.

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