Happy Relationship Stories

[Jockey]

waving imaginary card at referees

[huahinsimon]

This has gone some way from the intended direction hasn't it? bj blackowitz recounts his happy relationship (happy is in the eye of the beholder) and gets a load of flak - ok he was a bit too graphic but he was gently warned about that, but he is happy - no need to question that surely? As far as the comments about drinking beer, he was, I think telling hhs not to drink beer, for whatever reason, and never did say that he didn't. And finally, can i remind all of you would be moderators (i.e huahinsimon and richard) that the decisions on banning are not taken lightly and not taken because some poster or other suggests it, and bj hasn't even come close to being banned, so get off his back!

opinions are like.....

yes WL it has gone away from the intended direction because the inestimable bj violated the code of conduct with his sexual graphics, If I'm not mistaken. and you will shirley correct me if I am wrong. He stirred up the natives. which was no doubt his intention. and we feed the troll, apologies to trolls

As for his happy relationship, thank you Dr. Phil. Does his demeanor on this forum bespeak a "happy" man? throwing word bombs right, left and center; going into a @#*&&#@ rant.. attacking all things HuaHinian.

and as for believing he meant to caution HHS not to drink beer, how do you spell gullible? his use of the keyboard isso 555 bad he obviously left of the "I" obvious to me and some others anyway.


Thanks for the advice to get off his back, but it appears the HH losers don't by into your gentle warning approach.

just my opinion, let him rip oh Mod with a heart for the happy

HHS

[Modesty]

What ever he claims... Still a gentleman should never brag about a mather like this, (his seccond post...) And further more if he had couple of drinks and one beer at Hilton... It does´nt mather because he was still probably in the haze. You know it does´nt mather what you call alchohol, it is still alcohol. Further more he agreed to the rules in the begining in this forum... I´m, not interested of how he took a virgin... the only thing we are missing in the statement "is where she a" "screamer" and how long did the act take... 4min, 7min, oh myby a hour or two... BJ grow up. A romance is one thing how you do your "did the deed# is another thing. And claim that you´re the only one who dear to tell the truth... that is a joke... If I was the GF I would probably kill you.

[bj.blackowitz]

sorry but if all you where ranting about is my choice of words , well then your silly, man Im from Europe, a part of the world where sex is shown on tv , Homosexuality is normal ( at least in my homecountry), things like a period and deblossom is common discussion for every 13 yr old
(the minimum age for this forum according to the rules)

if you come from other parts of the world where the natural way of intercourse is worse then asking for information how to retaliate and how to do this and who to ask for ( the asker of this is well paticipating in this discussion ) then so be it,

Just think of what Prince once said
Off course I Sing about sex and not violence, otherwise god would have given me a Machinegun in my pants

jeez typical thoughts of either Yanks with a pair of eyecaps or elderly Grandfathers in their 2nd youth who think their 15 yr old have never read a sexbook, (off course they did, they found it in your Bedroom)

hypocrits
the reason I got graphical is because some of you wiseguys where questioning my GF and My integrity in this case.

and yes I make typos, now are we in english course here or discussing about a happy relationship ? . (hint for the mods, there is something called ASPELL and other, compile your PHP with it and install the spellcheker module), then again , I would love to see you typing in my native language in a small window.

now back to the happy relationship ? anybody happy with their Thai wife (no matter her BackGround and virginity)

ps Im Happy....

[Modesty]

So you agree to the 13th year old limeted... Good, I have a sons that is in that age... I know they know a lot...but my life is easer if I pretend that I don´t know everything. Still you went to far when you describe the whole act. I don´t want know what happend and I don´t think the expacts would like to know what happend. Further more, the poor gay who started this threadh did´nt want to know how you nailed a virgin... he just wanted positive threads about happy relationships. You just want to far. Drop it an grow up..-

[richard]

Wanderlust

I take your point about banning but we have a thread for profanity in night crawlers surely

I just think of the many who are reading the postings on this site who are overseas and looking at coming to HH and seek information from the site. The last thing they want to read about is deflowering

[matthew80]

This is an excellent topic: happy relationships. It is no more boring than the stories of unahappy relationships - or the weather, or restaurants, or toilets. if you don't like the topic, don't read it. English is not BJ's first language. Cut him a break on his communication skills, and cut him a break on his reaction to a poster doubting his girlfriend's viginity. What does it matter!! He's happy! There is a certain degree of "reving up" occuring here. And what he posts elsewhere, on other sites, has no relation to what he posts on this site. All sites have different levels of "tolerances" and acceptability - and we post accordingly. We all have to learn as we go.

I got married to my Thai lady last October. She spent six excellent months with me in the high Canadian north - loving the snow, and finding the cold extremely interesting, like"living inside a freezer!" She had never been out of Thailand before, so it was awesome to see her reactions, and it was a relief to see that it was not a hardship for her in any way. I guess I rediscovered the great points of my own country through her. Before coming north, we spent a month on Prince Edward Island, and she adored the wide open spaces, and especially the fresh air and lack of traffic. She was however, preplexed that she could not find a food vendor on any of the roads near our house. I was back in Thailand visiting her in March, and I plan to return in July for the "Thai wedding" Hopefully by then, my government will have seen fit to grant her a Permanent Resident Visa. It's our second attempt, and we're keeping our fingers crossed.

[Wanderlust]

Thank you for that matthew80, and good luck.
Now apologies to all but I am now donning my moderator hat, so what follows is not personal opinion it is based on the Terms and Conditions that everyone posting on this forum agreed to.
To quote one of them, "12. Flaming: flaming or personal attacks are not allowed or tolerated. Should anyone use inappropriate language, start a personal attack, or engage in hate speech, they will be banned from all further discussions. It is forbidden to make accusatory or slanderous comments against any other member without substantiated evidence to back up the claim. "
We lightly moderate this forum and warn people before even thinking about banning. bj blackowitz was a little too graphic in his description but didn't use inappropriate language, but was lightly warned and accepted that - sometimes it is easy to forget what part of the forum you are in. He has also been on this board for some time, and while many of his posts may not be to some members liking, they are normally to the point and within the terms and conditions. As has also been established already English is not his native tongue, and people should always give some leeway when this is the case, and if necessary politely ask for clarification of a post if the meaning is not clear. Of anyone who has posted in this thread, huahinsimon is the one breaking the T & C, and specifically the one quoted above, as he is making personal attacks and unsubstantiated comments about bj blackowitz.
Consequently, huahinsimon, you are being heavily warned to stop your attacks, and any repeat of them on this board, or any questioning of this post will result in you being banned from this forum. I hope I have made myself clear, and that everyone takes the point.

Now, please,

[huahinsimon]

Met my lady back in the 80's through a personal ad. "Free set of steak knives with every date!" Got 33 responses! Didn't want a wussie so first date was a motor cycle ride. (The woman who put her gum shoes on the exhaust pipes instead of the foot rests got eliminated quickly, after being pried off pipes. )

Second date was canoeing on a lake, third was snowshoeing, my suggestions. 4th was her suggestion: push bike ride to a winery, picnic on the estate, I got a good schwipz and fell off the bike on the way back

5th was her idea too. she fixed a pheasant dinner-- bird shot by herself -- No steak

That summer we went to Europe and walked 11 days through the Black Forest, Waldhut to Freiburg, then down to France and walked part of the Grande Rondonee. Aubusson to Cognac, went to Eperney and had Champers with Dom Perignon, continued on to St. Emilion and Bordeaux for the red wine,
down to Pamplona for the Running from the Bulls. I ran, she prayed.
then to Portugal, Albufera and the sunny Mediterannian.

Next summer we did a two week trek in The Sierra Nevadas. Earliest snow fall in 30 years. had to hike over 11,000 foot pass in 1/2 meter of snow. Got hasselled by bears, who ate our remaining food supply. Luckily we were only 24 hours from a pass that led out of the mountains. We drove on to Las Vegas; figured if we could survive the snow and bears, we had a chance at marriage. Passed on the Elvis Wedding Chapel, opted for the $30, 10 minute, no white dress or tux quickie in the county clerks office. good value!

Still together after 23 years. some highlights: a couple skiing trips to Austria, 2 week bicycle trip through Czech Republic, 24 day trek in Himalayas, tour of Rajastan, blah, blah, blah. you get the idea.

Now we be retired in Thailand.

Happy is as happy does. We be happy. Hope you are too.

all the best

HHS

[sandman67]

Like HHS I met a lass and travelled all over the world working and holidaying... great times....

then my life turned into a 15 car trainwreck ...divorce, depression....

I washed up in Thailand, and drifted about.

Then I met Mrs S......she changed me back to the Good Old Lad I used to be.

Every day I wake up to a cafe yin, a big smile and a warm hug.

Every day she makes me laugh. Just her cute smile makes my heart fly...

Every day she makes me feel safe, loved and wanted.

When we do argue its about cultural differences messing things up (which we are working through).....that hurts.

Guess it is love.....

All I know is here with her I am happy and content with life....with her I live, without her I exist.

[richard]

Wanderlust

Just an opinion

I thought you were a bit harsh with HHS

The banter between him and BJ was equal from both parties

The fact that BJ has been on the board for a long time matters?

Profanity is as far as I know covered by the T&Cs

Shouldn't a mod have sorted it before it hit the thread?

[JD]

Moderator Status ACTIVE

Richard

I thought another Moderator had already given a 'very balanced' view on this subject and that it was finished with. Everybody else seems to be getting on with it.

I refer you to the Terms and Conditions and in particular:-

15. Discussions about moderator or administrator actions are welcome in email or local private messages, but should not be discussed in public forums. This is out of respect for the members and moderators or policy involved.

Please PM the moderator who posted what, Just in your opinion was a bit harsh and air your views that way.

Meanwhile, as has been said before, PLEASE

[richard]

So if a moderator posts on public viewed threads no one can respond unless it's PMd!

[JD]

Moderator Status ACTIVE

Now apologies to all but I am now donning my moderator hat, so what follows is not personal opinion it is based on the Terms and Conditions that everyone posting on this forum agreed to.

Now, please,

Richard,

Wanderlust was doing his job as a Moderator, as he stated, 'this is not personal opinion.

And neither was my remark to you. (Moderator Status ACTIVE).

You are in breach of the Terms and Conditions (No. 15) as I stated above, the reason you are asked to do so by PM or e-mail is so that any moderated thread can get back on topic and not be held up by disagreements over a moderated decision.

Please use your PM facility to get the answers you require from any moderator you require them from. Do Not use this, or any other thread to discuss Moderator issues.

[migrant]

OK, Good relationships,

Met my Lady 4-5 years back in a Thai restaurant here in California. We talked for a few hours since the place was slow (she was a waitress).

Widowed, she worked 2 jobs and went to school.

Married last December and couldn't be happier. Between us we've never had a cross word, and everyday keeps getting better.