Like everything else, it is all relative. Depends on where and what you drive. If you live out of the big cities a manual will suffice, or you are lucky enough to own a high performance sports car, then there is a lot of pleasure to be had driving a manual transmission. On the other hand, if most of your driving is in traffic, then it is much better on both the car and the driver to have an automatic.
It is a completely uninformed comment to say that you just engage and point an automatic. With modern automatic transmissions a true "driver" will use the shift control in much the same way as with a manual. A modern automatic is a very efficient piece of engineering, and has no relation to the older "slush box" types that many are familiar with. The very slight loss of perceived performance is more in your head, than an actual fact.
I also have to agree with H2ODunc regarding moving the shift into neutral. In fact, the exact opposite will be the case, as with an automatic downshifting will give instant engine braking, as against trying to move a manual shift without using the clutch, and even if it did happen you would then have a vehicle completely relying on the brakes to stop.
I would also question the OP`s comment regarding how many automatics there are in Thailand. I have not bought a new car in many years, but a couple of years ago when I was looking for a pickup type car for my daughter, I could NOT find an automatic! On the other hand I agree that it is better to learn on a manual.
To each his own: "vive la difference"
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