Violence and mai pen pai

[lomuamart]

I'm not condoning what this guy did, but I've learnt to avoid taking my wife to places where the majority of woman are hookers, and most of those girls would put up with what this guy did. Face it, this place is really just a glorified meat-market.
What if the shoe were on the other foot? I've had my ass rubbed, pinched etc there, didn't complain, its all part of the game.

Try to find a more respectable hangout with a better class of customer.

Oh, I'm going to crucify you, twat.
If I can't take my Thai wife to a live music venue on a Saturday night ( and we were not at The Hilton - just some music place close-by), I might as well crawl back into my burrow with her and forget the years we've spent together here.
Fcuk you. It isn't part of the game. It's totally disrespectful. I wouldn't do that - pissed out of my head - in Nana Plaza.
Now, as you're location suggests, crawl back under your stone, caveman.

[alleykat]

Okay, now you're getting personal and offensive, just because you didn't get the answer you wanted.
I didn't say it was right!
But it happens, and always will! There are other places to go that aren't full of bargirls and whoremongers where the risk of this type of thing happening is a lot lower.
Anyway you are a big girl yourself for even starting this post, just sort the guy out yourself for fcuks sake and don't bring everyone else into it.
Have you ever had you crotch grabbed in a crowded bar in Thailand?
I have. I didn't whine & cry. I didn't slap the girl. My wife didn't post it on the net.
Q: What should I do if I don't like it?
A: Go to a different kind of place!

[DawnHRD]

As Lomu said, alleycat, he wasn't at the Hilton. He and his wife were at another nearby place with me to listen to live music. This must have happened just after I left them. I'm also a woman & went home (alone), passing the Hilton on my way. It could just as easily have been me touched up as his wife. How is this something that should be accepted? Just because we had to pass a load of drunken idiots on our way home from a good night out? Not acceptable, not to be expected, not on under any circumstances.
Sorry to hear about this Lomu, is Mrs L OK? It was lovely to meet her yesterday. And you did the right thing by walking away.

[Wanderlust]

I was also with Mr and Mrs Lomu and this is indeed a sorry tale after such a good day and evening. Well done to both the lomus for their handling of the situation, and alleykat you are completely and utterly wrong. I hope it happens to you and your wife (if you ever manage to have one) and then you deal with it in your way, ending up in the nastiest of Thai jails. Your insensitive post is unwelcome on this forum - grow up.

[lomuamart]

My last word, hopefully, on this subject.
This happened on the street as we trying to go home.
There is no excuse.
As for getting personal, Alleycat, sorry about that, but I didn't really see your post as being very "understanding". Then again I probably didn't explain it correctly.
I've calmed down, but speak to my wife. She's OK BTW, Dawn.
The farang is lucky the police didn't lock him up - he was just one word away from the monkey house. That word came from my wife and it was "no". He was a lucky man.
Anyway, I wasn't abused, my wife was.

[matthew80]

That sort of violent behaviour is unacceptable at any time, any place, or under any circumstances. It is a form of "rape" as far as I'm concerned. Full stop! The minute we begin to "rationalize" a situation where "groping" or "fondling" of an innocent passerby can be "expected" and therefore "accepted" , we are diminished. This kinda shit really pisses me off!

[richard]

Alleycat

Your handle says it all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[richard]

ps Alleycat

Regardless of their status they are human beings and should be treated with respect

Thailand is not unique regarding this sort of problem

Try a night out in any UK town at a weekend

[big jimmy]

Having read all the original posts I am still at a loss as to what really happened ?.. I realise that your wife was assualted and that is not be condoned in any shape or form.... But what really happened ?..Was she assulted as she walked down the street with you.. did this guy just come up and do the deed as you walked down the street ?...Or was she assaulted on a bar stool when you went to the toilet ?..More relevent facts would be appreciated...

[Hublet]

Whoa Alleykat,
Slow down.

You said "majority of woman are hookers, and most of those girls would put up with what this guy did. Face it, this place is really meat-market."

I bet my Thai friend would object to that particular little opinion. Even "Ladies of the Night" have a life and are not just bits of meat for a Falang moron to grope. I took great pleasure in witnessing a Farang get his one night at the Hilton. He was p***ed and could barely walk but he thought he was in a fruit shop and was feeling everyone who came within arms reached. Unfortunately (for him) he picked a friend of mine and she was not going to have this so dealt with him quickly and efficiently and left the police to clean the mess up. ALL ladies have the choice.

And just as an end note - after working some of the ladies go to the Hilton to see if they can find a fellow to finish the night but (oh the shock of it) some actually go there to have fun with their friends and dance.

[sargeant]

Commisserations lomu and mrs lomu it was totally out of order but i reckon you handled it correctly

As for this alley cat A%&#hole STAY IN BANGKOK YOU AND YOUR LIKE AINT WELCOME HERE we are gentlemen you aint

[johnnyk]

Alleycat

Your handle says it all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Spelled A_S_S_H_O_L_E

[Mack111]

Lumo

for sure you done the right thing, I know your thinking feck I should have twatted the guy and I would have been feeling better just now but that’s just lowering yourself to the clowns level.

Like someone else said, the clown keeps it up like that and some Thai guy will see to it that’s he's sorted out and the Thai guy wont have the hassle of police etc.

I must say though, all my time in Thailand thankfully I’ve hardly ever see physical abuse to anyone, I’ve had a few guys come on to my wife in Bangkok or HH (she’s Asian but not Thai) and usually a friendly “hey mate that’s my wifeâ€

[The understudy]

To Mr. lomu

I really condemn what that drunen twat wanted to do to your wife.
A similar situation had happen to my friend a couple of years ago during our study years and he was Thai. We where a party of six going out @ the Hilton's Brewing Company to unwind after a tough week of studies. after we all sat down @ one of the long talbes and checked out the crowd we noticed a group of Korean Golfers in their mid 30's behaving really obvious (kinda hyped up) among the the crowd. As the group was about to leave one of them Grabbed my friends Girlfriend and wanted her to come with them she imediately shook him off in shock and my friend who got furious was confronting him. It took a couple of us friends and waiters to hold my friend back from Punching the Korean twat. The Manager had to intervein and said to the Korean guys "You are making trouble. Go!" And they left the Brewing Company!
It's a problem that we all face these days and I can say you are not a coward! Wether Farang or Thai we just have to be observant all the time and try to find ways to pre empt such unwanted encroachments to our loved ones. if iwe could not avoid it we shall give the Perpitrator a very sound warning without resulting into violence!.
I wish that this terrible incident does not happen to anyone!

[Roppongi]

Lomu, sooner or later, these kind of drunken knobs get their just deserves.

Those kind of incidents can get out of hand real quick. You may win the battle, but his mates may gang up on you and you could well wake up worse for wear, that's if you wake up.